FRISCO, Texas — If there’s a minute in his busy day as Dallas Cowboys head coach, Brian Schottenheimer will catch himself taking a look at his left arm and hand.
There he can see 4 of the 5 tattoos he has obtained since 2022. A fifth is on the opposite aspect of his left forearm.
In some unspecified time in the future in the course of the Cowboys’ coaching camp in Oxnard, California, Schottenheimer will have a look at them as a reminder of his ‘whys.’
The tattoos symbolize his Christianity, his household, how he approaches his latest job and, in the end, what he desires his crew to symbolize.
“It is one thing everlasting. It is one thing that is vital to you,” Schottenheimer stated. “For me, it is a manner of checking in when instances are good, when instances are unhealthy, if it is advisable to humble your self, if it is advisable to construct your self again up.”
The primary one was executed when Schottenheimer’s household was dwelling in Tennessee. His son, Sutton, needed a tattoo and to share the second together with his father. However there was one drawback: Sutton wasn’t sufficiently old to get a tattoo in Tennessee.
“He was 17, not fairly 18 but on the time, so we needed to go away the state of Tennessee,” Schottenheimer stated. “We needed to go to Kentucky to do it, despite the fact that we had been going with him. Must be 18 or older.
“I am going to always remember. They stated, ‘Who’s going first?’ And I stated, ‘Properly, I am going to go first.’ However then I stated, ‘You are going to get one, proper?’ He goes, ‘Yeah, I am going to get one.’ So till he received it, I used to be a bit involved he won’t do it. He would possibly bail out. However he ended up getting his on his proper wrist.”
Slightly below Schottenheimer’s left elbow reads “Jireh'” which is Hebrew for “The Lord will present.”
“My journey, like most Christians, has been up and down, and I knew I’d by no means get one if it did not have that means to me,” Schottenheimer stated. “So this music had simply come out by [Christian music collective] Maverick Metropolis referred to as ‘Jireh.’ One in all my favourite songs. I am going to hearken to it on good days, unhealthy days; makes me completely satisfied.”
It did not take Schottenheimer lengthy to comprehend he needed one other tattoo.
“It is one hundred pc addictive,” he stated.
In summer season 2023, Schottenheimer visited Artwerks CQ in Nashville by himself for the subsequent one. Script lettering on the skin of his left forearm reads “religion household soccer.”
“My three ‘whys,'” he stated.
Final summer season, Sutton picked his father up on the airport in Nashville after the Cowboys’ offseason program ended. The dialog turned to tattoos. Quickly, Schottenheimer received what he referred to as his “life license plate.”
It is on the within of his left wrist simply above the place his watch band rests. It has “TN,” then the numbers 17, 27 and 19.
“Tennessee is dwelling,” he stated. “My spouse’s [Gemmi] birthday is the seventeenth, the twenty seventh is my son’s birthday and the nineteenth is my daughter’s [Savannah] birthday.”
The subsequent tattoo was impressed by a songwriter pal of Schottenheimer’s, Jason Ingram. Between Ingram’s forefinger and thumb is the phrase “Hope.” Schottenheimer needed a unique phrase that might exemplify the angle and work ethic he has exhibited all through his teaching profession: “grit.”
The spot of the tattoo is purposeful. He can see it day by day and it serves as a continuing reminder.
“Grit encompasses every little thing that I imagine it takes to be a champion,” Schottenheimer stated. “And after I say ‘champion’ I do not simply imply in sports activities. I imply in each space of your life: husband, father, pal. Life isn’t simple. There are excessive highs and low lows, however individuals with grit will discover a technique to win and achieve success by working more durable and combating longer than others.”
The newest tattoo got here prior to now eight weeks between the Cowboys’ organized crew actions and June minicamp. Three nails within the type of a cross under Jireh and nearer to his left elbow.
“This one is simply reminding me that Jesus suffered for me and my sins,” he stated. “That is what the nails are for.”
The cross took the longest to finish — about 25 minutes. The others took wherever from 15 to 18 minutes.
“It is stress,” Schottenheimer stated. “It is not painful.”
Main as much as the 2025 NFL draft, the tattoos turned one thing of a dialog starter. A couple of prospects in the course of the top-30 visits requested Schottenheimer about them. He in flip requested them what their tattoos meant.
It is a dialog that has additionally give you present Cowboys, similar to quarterback Dak Prescott.
“I am a man that has quite a lot of tattoos, and I really feel like when you may have one thing significant and also you need to put it on you, why not?” Prescott stated. “Particularly when it is a reminder. It is who you might be. It is one thing that you simply’re pleased with. I do know his have quite a lot of thought and particulars in them.”
Schottenheimer enjoys listening to the gamers’ tales about their tattoos.
“That is one factor I discovered,” Schottenheimer stated. “Hey, why did you get that? Oh, I misplaced my dad or I misplaced my aunt. The tales speaking to those guys, like Dak’s complete [personal life] story on his leg is unimaginable, [Jake Ferguson‘s] leg, [CeeDee Lamb‘s] again. It is concerning the individuals they love.
“It is fascinating that I’ve not gotten one to rejoice my dad but. Not saying I will not, but it surely’s not come into my thoughts but.”
Marty Schottenheimer, a long-time NFL coach, handed away in 2021 from Alzheimer’s. Brian joked that his father in all probability would have tried to speak him out of getting the tattoos due to the permanence.
“Hell, I used to be, what, 49 after I did it?” he stated. “I simply assume as you grow old, you get extra comfy with who you might be. I believe that is been the most effective issues for me over the past three, 4 years — from the time I left [as offensive coordinator in] Seattle [after the 2020 season], shedding my dad — simply having that confidence to simply be who the hell you might be. Like, who cares what individuals assume?”
Schottenheimer is considering a sixth tattoo for his arm. The creed he has give you for the crew is “Compete day by day.”
He is aware of he’ll maintain one spot free from ink — the highest of his left forearm — for one thing particular. The design shouldn’t be finalized. It might be a reproduction of the Lombardi Trophy or the Tremendous Bowl ring he envisions successful with the Cowboys.
“It will have one thing to do with the crew,” he stated. “In order that’s why I believe it will in all probability be extra of the ring or one thing like that than simply the trophy.”